Not sure what to write in a bridesmaid thank you card that’s personal, memorable, and truly heartfelt? You’re not alone. After all the chaos of wedding planning, managing the budget, and the magic of the big day, it’s time to say thank you to the incredible women who stood by your side through it all. From calming your nerves to holding your designer dress while you cried (or laughed), your bridesmaids deserve a message that goes beyond a simple “thanks.”
Writing a thoughtful note shows how much their support meant to you — and creates a keepsake they’ll treasure. Whether you’re looking for something sassy and funny, soft and sweet, or messages to accompany a high-end gift, we’ve gathered the best ideas to help you write the perfect message.
Funny & Witty Messages for Surviving the Wedding Budget
If your bridal crew is all about laughter and inside jokes, these witty messages will hit the mark. Perfect for besties who survived the group chats, late-night DIY budget marathons, and your bridal meltdowns. These are great to pair with a bridesmaid gift.
- Btch, please, you were always going to be my bridesmaid (and no, that wasn’t a question).*
- Now act surprised like you had no idea this was coming.
- I got my rock, now I need my flock.
- Help me keep my sht together on my wedding day.*
- Will you be part of my Bad Ass Crew when I say “I do”?
- I need something old, something new, something borrowed, and YOU.
- Please make sure I don’t ugly cry.
- You helped me through all the frogs — now help me tie down the prince.
- Not sure of the date, not sure of the place, but I know for sure — I NEED YOUR FACE!
Heartfelt Messages for Bridesmaid Thank You Cards (Paired with a Gift)
These sweet and meaningful messages are ideal for showing deep appreciation in a sincere and loving tone. They’re perfect for close friends, sisters, or anyone who’s been there through thick and thin. Use these messages when presenting high-value gifts like jewelry, spa days, or travel vouchers.
- I couldn’t tie the knot without you!
- My best day ever includes you by my side.
- You’ve stood beside me for years — now I want you standing with me at the altar.
- Bridesmaid (noun): 1. Beautiful soul sister. 2. Wedding day MVP. 3. Love and loyalty in one dress.
- You’ve always been there for me — let’s make another memory together!
Adding a personal touch — like a shared memory or an inside joke — can turn a simple card into a treasured keepsake. Don’t be afraid to write from the heart (or make them laugh ’til they cry). Your bridesmaids gave their time, energy, and love — your words are the best way to give a little of that back. Need the perfect card to accompany your luxury thank you gift?
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